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Post by Jaded on Mar 15, 2008 21:15:16 GMT -5
Kittenheart sounds like this ex is just a spiteful winch. There is little negotiating with someone wtih a vengeance that doesn't sit anywhere near logical.
I picture her looking like cartman screaming "Vengeance is mine sayeth the looooorddddd"
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Post by wizer on Mar 15, 2008 21:15:43 GMT -5
I mean really, what would she want them for anyhow? Power and control. That's what it's always about.
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Post by wizer on Mar 15, 2008 21:16:30 GMT -5
Kittenheart sounds like this ex is just a spiteful winch. There is little negotiating with someone wtih a vengeance that doesn't sit anywhere near logical. I picture her looking like cartman screaming "Vengeance is mine sayeth the looooorddddd" It's also been suggested (I think by you too) that she is vengeful because she wants me back, and this is her way of "getting even".
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Post by Jaded on Mar 15, 2008 21:17:56 GMT -5
I think she does want you back in some ways but in some ways she is conflicted. Power and control, yes, her two big drivers. Probably even bigger than getting you back at this point.
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Post by kittenhart on Mar 15, 2008 21:18:31 GMT -5
You would think after this much time has passed....and you being this far along in the process, that she would have simmered down a bit. I would think eventually she would.....but you know her....I don't....and she does sound kindof out there about the power and control.
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Post by wizer on Mar 15, 2008 21:19:49 GMT -5
I moved out a year ago December. She knows I have someone else. From what I understand, she does not.
She's not happy, she perceives me as being in good shape, so maybe there is some envy, jealousy...it didnt help that I took my GF with me to the courthouse a month or so ago..
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Post by Jaded on Mar 15, 2008 21:19:59 GMT -5
It's pretty insane because after this much time if that were me and i might want my husband back i'd come right out and say it.
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Post by wizer on Mar 15, 2008 21:21:29 GMT -5
She doesnt think quite the way you do, jadedstar.
If she did, I never would have left.
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Post by Jaded on Mar 15, 2008 21:33:41 GMT -5
She doesnt think quite the way you do, jadedstar. If she did, I never would have left. Well, duh. Poignant, aren't I?
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Post by wizer on Mar 15, 2008 21:34:11 GMT -5
She doesnt think quite the way you do, jadedstar. If she did, I never would have left. Well, duh. Is that a proposition?
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Post by tiredofhiscrap on Mar 16, 2008 10:37:20 GMT -5
She doesnt think quite the way you do, jadedstar. If she did, I never would have left. doc maybe she doesnt want you back, maybe she just doesnt want you to be happy without her. She is using the last bit of controll that she has. I am sure it hurts her to see you with somebody else, lord knows i understand how she feels, but i would never use the kids as revenge the way she does.
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 10:44:01 GMT -5
She does some pretty messed up stuff. She's not "all there". At this point, it's just a matter of damage control..extricate myself from this marriage with the least amount of casualties.
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Post by jules on Mar 16, 2008 12:05:07 GMT -5
it didnt help that I took my GF with me to the courthouse a month or so ago.. ouch...
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Post by newts on Mar 16, 2008 19:32:47 GMT -5
She does some pretty messed up stuff. She's not "all there". At this point, it's just a matter of damage control..extricate myself from this marriage with the least amount of casualties. Oops... that's has got to hurt. Why did you do that?
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Post by wizer on Mar 16, 2008 19:38:49 GMT -5
Because she was making my life miserable and I wanted to stick it to her, that's why.
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