Post by crystal025 on Jan 18, 2008 12:05:44 GMT -5
So, I know I have trust issues as it is, especially with the circumstances that brought Brian and I together, but he'd never given me a REAL reason to distrust him until last night.
He's been really secretive with his cell phone lately, at least to me, I thought maybe I was just paranoid. But, last night we went to the grocery store to get snacks for our 5-day ski trip this weekend, his cell phone beeps for a text message, I'm walking along side him and he flips it open and turns the phone away from me so I can't see it. But I get a glimpse of who the message is from, a chicks name. I casually ask, "Who's that?" He says, "It's Jav." Bull shit. I called him out right there. I said, "Don't lie to me, who is it?" He played stupid and kept insisting it was Jav, I said, "I'm not stupid, you just flat out lied to me." He said, "Fine, it's Parys." I said, "Who is Parys?" He said it's some chick who works with Jav and Coop. Uhm, that's convenient. he says she was asking what time they were DJing at the club that night. I don't say a word to him for the rest of the shopping trip, my whole body was shaking and throbbing. I was about to walk out right there, and leave him at the store.
We get into the car, and I tell him I can't believe he just flat out lied to me. He says I'm snooping, and he doesn't want to be asked who he's talknig to, and he tells me I'm acting like Amanda (his ex). Fuck you!
We get home and I go into the bedroom and just start bawling. I didn't know what else to do. He sits out in the living room for awhile, and then comes in acting all sweet, saying he's sorry he snapped out me, and he loves me, and he's gonig to make things better with us, and blah blah blah. So I decide I'm going to go to their gig last night. Let's find out who this chick is. I get in the shower and start getting ready. We get to the club, this chick never shows up. Now I'm thinking he must have called her and said I was comnig that night (I rarely come to their week night gigs), so she didn't come. Maybe not, maybe she is just a "friend" and she just didn't make it.
I leave early and go home and go to bed. He gets home at 2:30am, normal time. I wake up at 4:30am and couldn't fall back alseep. I sneak over and check his phone, nothing weird. He had text her about where the gig was and how to get there and what time. Okay. There's also about 5-6 calls to and from her over the past 2 weeks.
I can't let this go now though. I don't know who this chick is. He lied to me about talking to her. All I want to do now is check his phone 24/7 and check his phone bill. But I can't see his text messages from his phone bill, just incoming and outgoig calls. And for all I know, he could be using his work phone to call or text her.
I never wanted to be that g-f, who snoops in her b-f's phone and stuff like that. Look what I've become. I'm not even excited about our vacation anymore.
He's been really secretive with his cell phone lately, at least to me, I thought maybe I was just paranoid. But, last night we went to the grocery store to get snacks for our 5-day ski trip this weekend, his cell phone beeps for a text message, I'm walking along side him and he flips it open and turns the phone away from me so I can't see it. But I get a glimpse of who the message is from, a chicks name. I casually ask, "Who's that?" He says, "It's Jav." Bull shit. I called him out right there. I said, "Don't lie to me, who is it?" He played stupid and kept insisting it was Jav, I said, "I'm not stupid, you just flat out lied to me." He said, "Fine, it's Parys." I said, "Who is Parys?" He said it's some chick who works with Jav and Coop. Uhm, that's convenient. he says she was asking what time they were DJing at the club that night. I don't say a word to him for the rest of the shopping trip, my whole body was shaking and throbbing. I was about to walk out right there, and leave him at the store.
We get into the car, and I tell him I can't believe he just flat out lied to me. He says I'm snooping, and he doesn't want to be asked who he's talknig to, and he tells me I'm acting like Amanda (his ex). Fuck you!
We get home and I go into the bedroom and just start bawling. I didn't know what else to do. He sits out in the living room for awhile, and then comes in acting all sweet, saying he's sorry he snapped out me, and he loves me, and he's gonig to make things better with us, and blah blah blah. So I decide I'm going to go to their gig last night. Let's find out who this chick is. I get in the shower and start getting ready. We get to the club, this chick never shows up. Now I'm thinking he must have called her and said I was comnig that night (I rarely come to their week night gigs), so she didn't come. Maybe not, maybe she is just a "friend" and she just didn't make it.
I leave early and go home and go to bed. He gets home at 2:30am, normal time. I wake up at 4:30am and couldn't fall back alseep. I sneak over and check his phone, nothing weird. He had text her about where the gig was and how to get there and what time. Okay. There's also about 5-6 calls to and from her over the past 2 weeks.
I can't let this go now though. I don't know who this chick is. He lied to me about talking to her. All I want to do now is check his phone 24/7 and check his phone bill. But I can't see his text messages from his phone bill, just incoming and outgoig calls. And for all I know, he could be using his work phone to call or text her.
I never wanted to be that g-f, who snoops in her b-f's phone and stuff like that. Look what I've become. I'm not even excited about our vacation anymore.