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Post by finding on Mar 11, 2008 18:52:44 GMT -5
I went out with this guy weeks ago on one lousy lunch date and he won't get the picture.
I've told him there will not be a second date, I don't want to be friends and that I am seeing someone else. Nothing will get him to get the picture. I've been firm and blunt, but it doesn't help.
I don't respond, but he continues to call and IM me. There was even one night I saw a strange truck sitting out front. Granted, I don't know if it was him or not, but this guy is starting to freak me out.
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Post by wizer on Mar 11, 2008 18:57:48 GMT -5
At least it was only one date. He can't be THAT attached to you.
Just keep ignoring him, keep your eyes open especially when leaving your house or coming home at night..
He will go away.
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Post by finding on Mar 11, 2008 19:05:22 GMT -5
At least it was only one date. He can't be THAT attached to you. Just keep ignoring him, keep your eyes open especially when leaving your house or coming home at night.. He will go away. Bull shit. I spent all of a couple of hours hanging out with him weeks ago. He told me a few days ago that even though he doesn't know me well, that he thinks he is in love with me. I never responded to it. While I was away from my computer today he sent me a nasty joke that made me want to barf and then asked me out for this Friday. I have not spoken to him since last Saturday, and that was only to tell him that I don't want to speak to him anymore and to leave me alone. He still won't get the picture.
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Post by lumpy on Mar 11, 2008 19:14:52 GMT -5
Tell him you showed your B/F his texts and he's beginning to get pissed.
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Post by wizer on Mar 11, 2008 19:25:13 GMT -5
Did he seem like a wack job when you were with him?
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Post by finding on Mar 11, 2008 19:28:16 GMT -5
Did he seem like a wack job when you were with him? No, just your average arrogant asshole, that side only emerged on the date. It was actually a double date and I'm surprised my friend's date didn't nock his block off on more than one occassion. He would have deserved it. Hence why I only went out with him once.
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Post by wizer on Mar 11, 2008 19:29:16 GMT -5
He WILL eventually leave you alone when he realizes you are serious.
Whatever you do, do not respond to his attempts to contact you..even to tell him to bug off.
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Post by jules on Mar 11, 2008 20:49:07 GMT -5
Ok, if you seriously suspect that this guy is dangerous, get the police involved. The reason I take a mention of stalking seriously is that in college I was stalked by a guy who turned out to be a rapist (he was arrested and convicted of raping another girl on campus.)
If you think he's just harmless of course don't do that, just keep your distance, be aware of your surroundings, and continue to ignore him. He may be just be odd, but it's always good to be proactive about protecting yourself.
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Post by murdock on Mar 11, 2008 21:16:43 GMT -5
The fact that someone can think they are in love after a shity evening is really scary.
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Post by Phyxius on Mar 11, 2008 21:20:01 GMT -5
He WILL eventually leave you alone when he realizes you are serious. Whatever you do, do not respond to his attempts to contact you..even to tell him to bug off. Listen to the expert...
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Post by murdock on Mar 11, 2008 21:33:34 GMT -5
Be very careful. You must be on your toes all the time with someone like this... just in case.
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Post by wizer on Mar 11, 2008 21:34:04 GMT -5
Be very careful. You must be on your toes all the time with someone like this... just in case. Right! Because you DONT want to be on your back with someone like this.
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Post by finding on Mar 11, 2008 21:36:39 GMT -5
Be very careful. You must be on your toes all the time with someone like this... just in case. Right! Because you DONT want to be on your back with someone like this. I think I may hurl at that thought.
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Post by wizer on Mar 11, 2008 21:51:51 GMT -5
IF you look at what I did to your picture you might hurl
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Post by finding on Mar 11, 2008 21:55:24 GMT -5
IF you look at what I did to your picture you might hurl I did. NOW FIX IT!!!!!
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